Friday, April 23, 2010

Unintentionally Offended

Today i am going to share some interesting reasons to everyone of you out there, so you all can practise and hopefully master the Arts of using this "Unintentionally Offended" after you read this.

1.0 Introduction

Unintentionally means not intentional or deliberate, which means not careful. While Offended could have more meanings depends on the situation given. It could mean hurt, attacked, insult, annoyed, irritate in most cases people would commonly use offended.

The matter that we are discussing today is "How severe is Unintentionally Offended cause you and how to avoid it." A pretty good example of unintentionally offend is when u accidentally say something that the other person do not like, such as mentioning his parents without knowing he was an orphan, or talking about his girlfriend while he just break up yesterday.

No matter how people offend you, you should defend. That's the way, Be A Man.
However when unintentionally comes in, it's quite OK to acknowledge the person because he/she was just purely careless.

You cannot avoid this because nobody knows your past, nobody knows your personalities, nobody would know what you dislike by 100%. People always assume their friends and social group would purely understand everything BUT no. This thing only happen in fairyland or near future. Therefore you cannot says that an individual is unintentionally offended you. Because it just don't make any sense. At least for rational people it wouldn't. Because:-

You know it's unintentional a.k.a careless, so you would take it easy, no matter how big is the offence or trouble you have cause. Because by using this "unintentionally offence", it is understandable that you know he/she is unintentionally.

2.0 How to use this word

Unintentionally Offended could be use in any ways, any form.
Here are few examples:-

You unintentionally offended me that day and I'm so hurt....

You unintentionally offended me, so i don't friend you anymore...

It can be a very great way to use it when u cannot find any reason against the person you dislike. Because as I've said, nobody knows what u dislike because the word "unintentionally offended" is purely confusing.

If someone come to me and says "you offended me, i would probably think back what I've done in recent days/months/years."

I would probably run out of idea if it's unintentionally, because is you who determine whether i did it intentionally, or not.

Suggested users: Politicians, Lawyers (and help me think of some other users.)


3.0 conclusion

Well, if you are rational enough, you will realise you will not use this word, because it would be better if u just say "You offended me, because it would give you more strength and anger to inform the guy/girl that you are in rage."

Don't you feel guilt inside you when u know the person is UNINTENTIONALLY and yet you still angry?

So, cut the crap and just use offended next time, no one will laugh at you.

Remarks
It's a bad conclusion i know, and i feel that i'm dragging since the beginning, but hope you guys would like the idea of this piece of note today. Thank you for the people who provides me with the idea Unintentionally offended.(Sorry i use this quite often but it's the main point.)

And finally, Sorry if i UNINTENTIONALLY OFFENDED you by writing this note.

6 comments:

  1. message heard :) thank God you din unintentionally offended me here xD nice sharing

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  2. or simpler - "didn't mean to offend".. =)

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  3. wah!! i love your header. damn zen the tofu!!

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  4. Thanks for the lecture Baitofu. LoL. gonna say sorry to her d one day=P

    L

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  5. Not a problem guys, Thanks for dropping by.

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